Are you feeling like something is "wrong" with you, causing you a great deal of anxiety? Are you thinking "it shouldn't be this hard"? Are these feelings causing you to struggle with feeling disconnected from your relationships or your true self? You’re not alone, and no, there is nothing "wrong" with you! Past traumas and anxiety directly affect our current relationships, even with ourselves, but so does your personal needs and desire to be happy! Pushing away your personal needs leads to long-term issues for you and your relationships. You are right, it shouldn't be this hard and it doesn't have to be. Let's dig in together to untangle what's holding you back and explore the life you really want to live through couples therapy with your partner, trauma or anxiety counseling, individually, or relationship help for either!